We have a covered deck on the back of our house. It is one of our favorite places to spend our free time. The deck is one of the first places the kids look if they can't find me! We hung a hummingbird feeder on the back deck this summer and it has brought us so much joy. The hummingbirds found it within a day or two. First two adults came and then two babies! They feed all day long on the sugary water we have prepared for them. We've read that they need this sweet substance to give them energy to fly around and eat bugs (actually my husband did the reading and I'm just acting like I did). I didn't know that these amazing birds eat bugs but I am so glad that they do!
Every time the hummingbirds come to our feeder I feel like we are receiving a special treat from Mother Nature.
Tuesday, August 7, 2012
Monday, June 4, 2012
Riverfest
Neil and I went to the Cornwall-on-Hudson Riverfest this past weekend. I really enjoy living in a town near the Hudson River. There are still times when I look at the river and I'm awestruck. Besides the beauty of the river it's also a cool place to have a festival and kick back and listen to some music.
I grew up listening to the West Point Band with my grandparents. They loved the band and would often have the band members over for dinner( and I'm sure grandpa would meet them for a beer in the local bar). For those of you who don't know, during the summer the West Point band plays at Trophy Point on Sunday afternoons. My grandparents would go to the base about 3 hours early so they could get a good parking spot. The Hudson River is the backdrop to the bandstand. It is really beautiful.
The Hellcats were always my favorite ensemble with the Jazz Knights a close second. Well, the West Point Band has a new ensemble.....The West Point Steel Drum Band! and they played at the Riverfest. So much fun!! They played everything from traditional steel drum music to Stevie Wonder and Lady GaGa. If you are ever in the Hudson Valley check out the West Point Band. It's as American as apple pie!
I grew up listening to the West Point Band with my grandparents. They loved the band and would often have the band members over for dinner( and I'm sure grandpa would meet them for a beer in the local bar). For those of you who don't know, during the summer the West Point band plays at Trophy Point on Sunday afternoons. My grandparents would go to the base about 3 hours early so they could get a good parking spot. The Hudson River is the backdrop to the bandstand. It is really beautiful.
The Hellcats were always my favorite ensemble with the Jazz Knights a close second. Well, the West Point Band has a new ensemble.....The West Point Steel Drum Band! and they played at the Riverfest. So much fun!! They played everything from traditional steel drum music to Stevie Wonder and Lady GaGa. If you are ever in the Hudson Valley check out the West Point Band. It's as American as apple pie!
Sunday, June 3, 2012
Cricut Word Collage Project
I'm so excited! I just finished my first project with my Cricut Word Collage Cartridge. I should say my first successful project. My first try was a learning process. I had to learn from my mistakes and move on. Here is the finished project...........
It's in an 8x10 frame with a paper rosette at the bottom. I will be doing a tutorial on paper rosettes soon. I think it would be great to decorate the walls of a sewing room. Don't ask me why I chose this theme. I don't even sew!! It was a fun project though and I hope to be using my Word Collage Cartridge a whole lot more.
It's in an 8x10 frame with a paper rosette at the bottom. I will be doing a tutorial on paper rosettes soon. I think it would be great to decorate the walls of a sewing room. Don't ask me why I chose this theme. I don't even sew!! It was a fun project though and I hope to be using my Word Collage Cartridge a whole lot more.
Thursday, May 31, 2012
dealing with loss
Working in a nursing home gives one the unique opportunity to see people enjoy the milestones in life that only a few ever attain..... 60th anniversaries, 95th birthdays, and four generations spending time together. It's a joy and a privilege to be a part of.
There are times though that are not so joyous. I'm not talking about an individuals own illnesses, although those can be heart breaking enough. I'm talking about when someone has lived so long that they have to experience their children and grandchildren becoming ill and passing away. When you are in your 90's you don't expect to live longer than your children who are in their 70's and from what I have seen you don't want to. I think it is some of the deepest sadness I have ever seen.
I am certainly not an expert on the subject but these are some of my suggestions for when an elderly person in a nursing home is losing a loved one, whether it be a spouse, child, grandchild, or best friend.
Keep the person informed, within reason. I have seen people become so angry and hurt when they think they are not being told the truth about a difficult situation. They haven't lived this long without going through difficulties in life. I find that they are usually tougher than you think.
If their loved one is in the hospital make arrangements to have the elderly person visit them if at all possible. Of course that's if they want to. If you can't transport them yourself hire an ambulette.
If their loved one passes away make arrangements to have the person attend the funeral if they want to. They need to have closure too.
Lastly, let the loved one who is left behind guide the grieving process when you visit them. If they want to talk about the one they've lost let them. Maybe bring in some photos to look at. Tell funny stories about the person. Reminisce. It's part of the healing process.
I have also seen people not want to talk about the situation. Not want to visit. Not want to be informed. That's okay too. There is no "right way" to deal with loss or a difficult situation. It's as individualized as the people who are involved. I think the most important part is giving the person the chance to make their own choices about how to handle the situation if they are able.
Okay, I'm getting off of my soapbox.
There are times though that are not so joyous. I'm not talking about an individuals own illnesses, although those can be heart breaking enough. I'm talking about when someone has lived so long that they have to experience their children and grandchildren becoming ill and passing away. When you are in your 90's you don't expect to live longer than your children who are in their 70's and from what I have seen you don't want to. I think it is some of the deepest sadness I have ever seen.
I am certainly not an expert on the subject but these are some of my suggestions for when an elderly person in a nursing home is losing a loved one, whether it be a spouse, child, grandchild, or best friend.
Keep the person informed, within reason. I have seen people become so angry and hurt when they think they are not being told the truth about a difficult situation. They haven't lived this long without going through difficulties in life. I find that they are usually tougher than you think.
If their loved one is in the hospital make arrangements to have the elderly person visit them if at all possible. Of course that's if they want to. If you can't transport them yourself hire an ambulette.
If their loved one passes away make arrangements to have the person attend the funeral if they want to. They need to have closure too.
Lastly, let the loved one who is left behind guide the grieving process when you visit them. If they want to talk about the one they've lost let them. Maybe bring in some photos to look at. Tell funny stories about the person. Reminisce. It's part of the healing process.
I have also seen people not want to talk about the situation. Not want to visit. Not want to be informed. That's okay too. There is no "right way" to deal with loss or a difficult situation. It's as individualized as the people who are involved. I think the most important part is giving the person the chance to make their own choices about how to handle the situation if they are able.
Okay, I'm getting off of my soapbox.
Wednesday, May 30, 2012
A killer Hike
The kids and I went on a killer hike this weekend. Okay, it wasn't killer for the kids. Just me. It was really a killer when the kids RAN up the hills and I was trying to just catch my breath!
Anyway, enough whining, we saw a lot of cool wildlife.....
we had to scramble up and down some massive boulders....
but when we got to the top the view was worth it, even though it was hazy
Anyway, enough whining, we saw a lot of cool wildlife.....
but when we got to the top the view was worth it, even though it was hazy
the kids took a little rest here
The best part was the monument at the top of the mountain....
It was very fitting being that it was Memorial Day weekend.
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Decoupaged beads
A few weekends ago I went to a bead show and bought some really fun beads that I hadn't seen before. They were wooden beads that had been decoupaged. They had every kind of theme and color scheme imaginable and it was very hard to come to a decision about what to buy. This is what I finally chose......
When I got home I realized that I had bought mostly black backgrounds when summer is just starting. I don't know what I was thinking. Anyway, here is a necklace I made using the bead with the feather....
I love the jewel tones and I had a lot of fun making it.
Monday, May 28, 2012
Sand Pail List
In the June 2012 issue of Better Homes and Gardens Magazine there is an article about making a Sand Pail List. Similar to a Bucket List, it's a list of things you would like to do this summer. A Bucket List for my life is way too overwhelming for me to think about but I can handle coming up with a few ideas for summer. So here they are.....
Michelle's Sand Pail List
1. Go to a West Point Concert
2. Visit Boscobel
3. Visit Storm King Art Center
4. Go Peach Picking
5. Eat lots of Corn on the Cob
6. Go bike riding at least once
7. Make homemade ice cream
8. Go Kayaking
9. Pick a new trail to hike
10. Go to Wildwood, NJ
I think that's a pretty good start. What's on you Sand Pail List?
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